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Do wives cheat on their husbands?
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Sex is a very important part of a relationship but some guys seem
to make it the focal point and that can be a serious mistake. Wild
sex in all its variations night after night does not keep your
partner from straying. Certainly she will enjoy it but a woman needs
something more than an incredible orgasm every 24 hours and even
wild sex will not keep her from wandering.
If your partner is suggesting to you that there are nights when she
would just like to snuggle up with you or spend the evening talking
then you are hearing some of the warning signs. As I said earlier,
men often look for affairs for the thrill and the passion while most
women fall into affairs because they are vulnerable. She may well
feel that the only reason you keep her cumming every night is
because you want to get your rocks off and not because you want
to spend time with her.
A woman needs to be courted every single day, she needs to be
convinced that her partner loves and cares for her and is attracted
to her and that she means more to him than being just a convenient
sex object. Girls who don't get this sort of reassurance will
find it elsewhere no matter how good the sex may be.
Some guys can't cope when their wives go back to college or
return to the workforce. Suddenly they feel that every predatory
male will be sniffing around their lady and they feel that their
relationship is in danger. The ironic thing here is that this is
probably the least dangerous time in a relationship. The bored wife
at home is far more likely to stray than the eager girl who is far
more interested in establishing a career than falling into an affair.
The problem here is that guys in this situation often behave like
jealous idiots and do far more damage to their relationships than
they realize. It is far better to talk to your partner about your
concerns than to hide them and let them fester until they explode
and ruin everything. By talking calmly and quietly to your partner
about your concerns you show her that you really care about her and
believe me, you will help her see how you really feel about her and
you will win more brownie points than you ever thought possible.
Every marriage moves into the doldrums at times even mine does
occasionally and it is usually the woman who notices it first.
Work may be taking up a big part of the day for both of you leaving
little time for that special time with each other or you may have
achieved your joint goals and are drifting aimlessly with no new
targets to aim for.
Maybe you've begun flirting with some cute babe at work or your
partner is finding life at home to be boring. Whatever the
situation this is a serious point in your relationship and you need
to be aware of the danger signs when they arise. Unfortunately by
the time most men wake up to what is happening it could be too late.
Turn the danger signs into positives by focusing on them. Take
your lady out to dinner or a show, do something special with her
that you haven't done for a while, show her that you want to keep
on building your relationship. Set new joint goals with her that
both of you can aim for and start working towards them. Step back
from that babe at work, think of the messy divorce or separation,
the alimony, the hassles of setting up life with someone new and the
fact that the beautiful lady you already have is very special to you.
Women do stray, there is no doubt of that but most situations
can be avoided if you are prepared to work hard to prevent them.
The hard work is always worth it because a loving partnership can
face the problems of the world far more easily than can one lonely
individual.
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