1)Why Men Cheat by: Gregory Lions
"Big, little or short or tall,
Wish I could have kept 'em all,
I loved 'em every one"
- T.G. Sheperd, I Loved 'Em Every One
I thumbed through the New York City Yellow pages under
"Escort Services". There were twenty-five pages! "Escort"
is just the way businesses get around saying "prostitutes".
Clearly, the world's oldest profession is alive and well here
in the Big Apple. I even feel I can safely say that not all the
men who patronize these services are single.
Cheat is a silly word It's culturally centered. It implies that
we've violated the rules of the game of fidelity. First off,
take
a look at the current divorce rate: 1 out of every 2 marriages
fails. Why? Marital infidelity is the biggest reason. There are
other cultures that openly allow a man to have more than one
wife; the Muslims. One of the richest men on the planet today,
The Sultan of Brunei has 100 wives! Right here in the United
States, polygamy is openly practiced in Utah.
We exist as human beings on two levels; with bodies and
minds. We attempt to enforce a set of Puritanical moral codes
that contradict our physical desires. This is just another of
the
many ridiculous hypocrisies people try to impose upon
themselves and others.
If we would only be honest with ourselves, then we'd
acknowledge the fact that we are sexually attracted to more
than one individual. This is not a violation of any love
promise
made to one woman, it's just instinct, that pre-loaded
software package in our brains. On the purely physical plane,
we have instinct and hormones constantly influencing our
thoughts. This combination comes into play when a man
sees an attractive woman walking by. She stimulates his
senses. He doesn't know what she's thinking he only sees
her physical attributes. They make him feel good.
He has fantasies of what it would be like to kiss her, to feel
her
body against his; to make love to her. Seconds after, a second
thought, guilt, may come barging in. "I'm a married man" or
"I've got a girlfriend" or "How could I betray her like that?"
It's
absurd that a man should feel guilt for something over which he
has no control.
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