How To Be Successful In Love And Life
Life is full of double standards whether in religion, school, politics, parenting or sex. It is always the one pointing the finger of control that seems to lack self-control; the one who tells everyone what not to do is the one doing it and screaming about the fact that it is immoral whenever anybody else does it – take, for example, the oh so reverend priests in the Roman Catholic Church who molest little boys (not girls in general, but boys) and then preach that sex is (in general) evil, that women should not be priests and that marriage is a sacred sacrament between a man and a woman…and these are the people who shape our moralistic upbringing.
In school it is the teacher who shouts in class and then demands peace and quiet in the hallways; for politicians it is the gay Congressman who votes against gay marriage; with parents it is the unemployed overweight smoker dad who tells his kids to work hard at school and beats them if they fail to make the grade in class or on the sports field; with sex it is you. Yes, you are the one with the double standard who cannot bear the thought that their partner might have desires, dreams, fantasies, flirtations or even full on encounters with the opposite sex and yet you are committing all of these crimes yourself. And it is you I am speaking to.
Far be it from me to point the finger without admitting that I used to be there too. Far be it from me to accuse you of something that I did not participate in myself. Far be it from me to preach what I haven’t practiced. Double standards in sex boil down to jealousy. Jealousy is a sad and pathetic emotion, one that few of us believe we have control over – “it is just the way I am” – stop lying to yourself. If you are jealous and you do not such as it, then there’s more than enough you can do because double standards may seem to be acceptable when you get your own way, it is just that being on the other end of the scale suddenly makes it unfair, as well as that is illogical. If it is illogical then you can do something about it. This is what you can do:
First, rather than always seeing the world from your point of watch, begin to look at it from your partners point of watch – what would they think about the thoughts, emotions and actions you go through on a day to day, minute through minute basis? Are you thinking things that you wouldn’t want them to know about, are you feeling things that you would never tell them, are you acting out sexually with others and hiding it?
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